Do You Lean Toward Conflict Or Harmony?
In every relationship and situation, we are presented with a choice: Will we pursue peace, or will we stir the waters of conflict?
Sometimes, our natural instincts surprise us.
Some people feel energized by confrontation; others will do almost anything to maintain peace.
No matter where you fall on the spectrum, God’s Word invites you into a better way — a way that produces life, healing, and true connection.
Scripture Insight: Romans 12:18
“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18
Reflective Questions
How do I typically respond when tension arises with others?
Take a moment to be honest with yourself.
Do you shut down, lash out, or try to fix everything?
Recognizing your patterns is the first step toward change.
What relationships in my life could use more peace today?
Ask God to show you where He is calling you to be a peacemaker, even if it feels uncomfortable.
Am I relying on my strength, or on God’s Spirit, to pursue peace?
True harmony is not manufactured through human effort alone.
It is the fruit of a life rooted in Christ.
Devotional Thought
Choosing peace doesn’t mean you avoid hard conversations or pretend that problems don’t exist.
Real peace involves courage, grace, and a heart deeply connected to God’s love.
When you ask yourself, “Do you lean toward conflict or harmony?”, remember that living at peace with others is a beautiful offering to God.
It’s not about winning arguments or maintaining appearances — it’s about embodying the heart of Christ in every interaction.
His Spirit empowers you to stay calm when emotions rise and to speak truth in love when needed.
Even when others don’t respond the way you hope, your choice to sow seeds of peace will never be wasted.
You are planting hope, trust, and unity in a world that desperately needs it.
Let God guide your steps toward a life marked by His peace.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
You are the God of peace, and I long to mirror Your heart.
When conflict comes, help me to respond not out of fear or pride, but with Your wisdom and love.
Teach me to be a peacemaker — not through my strength, but through Your Spirit alive in me.
Open my eyes to the places where You are calling me to pursue harmony.
Give me the courage to have honest conversations, the patience to listen well, and the grace to forgive quickly.
I trust You to lead me in every relationship.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.